-“I am where I am today-mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, and financially- because of decisions I have made.“
-“I understand that God did not put in me the ability to always make right decisions. He did, however, put in me the ability to make a decision and then make it right. “
-“my life will not be an apology. It will be a statement.“ Stephen Covey说过, “start with the end in mind.“ 明确自己想成为什么样的人, 生活就会有那么多困惑和彷徨, 而是成为一个理直气壮的陈述。
-“Why me? Why not me? I will be prepared for something great!! “真倒霉 为什么偏偏是我?每个人可能都说过这样的话。我喜欢对这个问题的回答, “why not me? I will be prepared for something great!! “
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-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We feel that Beethoven himmself, gloomy and awe-inspiring, is playing the "Es muss sein!" to our own great love.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We feel that Beethoven himmself, gloomy and awe-inspiring, is playing the "Es muss sein!" to our own great love.
-“The responsibility that comes with leadership is often humbling.“
-“It is never the duty of a leader to struggle for someone else; a leader encourage others to struggle and assure them that the struggle is worthwhile. “ 这是leader的重要品质之一, 遗憾的是, 鲜有leader可以做到。 我看到更多的是, leader们的彷徨恐惧, 让下面作为部下的曾经激情万丈的我们对前行的方向开始怀疑并丧失勇气。
- “I am who my friends are. I speak their language, and I wear their clothes. If I associate with chickens, I will learn to scratch at the ground and squabble over crumbs. If I associate with eagles, I will learn to soar to the great heights.” 近朱者赤, 近墨者黑。 我们作为软弱的个体, 难以抗拒潜移默化的影响和致命的诱惑。就好像好的水果和腐烂的放在一起, 很快也会腐烂一样。
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We feel that Beethoven himmself, gloomy and awe-inspiring, is playing the "Es muss sein!" to our own great love.
- “Beginning to day, I will create a new future by creating a new me. No longer will I dwell in a pit of despair, moaning over squandered time and lost opportunity. “
- “Successful people make their decisions quickly and change their mind slowly.” U571里面的Andy便有这样的品质,理想化了的。这种品质的必不可少的条件就是睿智,知识,经验和胆识。 不具备这些条件的人的典型表现, 就是犹疑不定。 最愚蠢的case就是这些条件一无所有, 却妄下决策的人, 如果这样的人在领导层, 那将对其所属并领导的群体来讲是不小的隐患,这个隐患爆发的时候, 将是不小的灾难。U571里面提到。 Leader要在不充分的情报下作果敢的判断和决策, 并对其后果负责。 我看到的leader都是好的时候争功, 坏的时候推卸责任给下属的多, 勇于对后果负责的, 只有在u571那样的电影里可以看到了。
-“I do not fear opinion, gossip, or the idle chatter of monkeys, for all are the same to me. “ 能做到这一点的人一定是在凡人看上去像疯子一样的天才。 在当下言论无限自由,众口铄金已经易如反掌的时候, 你能坚持做一个像疯子一样的天才吗?
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- “Truth is never dependent upon consensus of opinion.”
Consensus of opinion多半是所有人的利益权衡之后找到的平衡点, 与真相无关, 与发展无关。人们都想知道真相, 但是人们想知道想接受的真相, 往往局限于符合自己想象和利益的真相, 而拒绝接受自己不希望的真相。 这一点在极端偏激的民族主义里面很常见。 这是梦想和现实的差距。我想起tom cruise出演的一个电影的一句台词: You want the truth? You can’t afford the truth!!
- “Passion is a product of the heart. Passion is what helps you when you have a great dream.”
-“I will awaken every morning with an excitement about the new day and its opportunity for growth and change.” Titanic里面的Jack说过类似的话。 那个Jack, 在他那么酷那么帅的表面之下, 他的creator还是别具匠心地给他注入了很多内在的美, 不知道发疯痴迷这个电影的小朋友们有没有注意到。
-“Yes, I have a dream. It is a great dream, and I will never apologize for it. Neither will I ever let it go, for if I did, my life would be finished. “
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5)” Today, I will choose to be happy.” 这一段和Stephen Covey的to be proactive 是一脉相通的。
-“It's what inside that makes all the difference. I don't believe that being Jewish or Aryan or African has any bearing on what one can become. Greatness does not care if one is a girl or a boy. If, in fact, it's what's inside us that make all the difference, then the difference is made when we choose what goes in side. “ 这就是主观能动性的巨大作用。很多人作为劣势的人种或者性别出生在这个世界上。 我也常常目睹很多人因为自己的优势人种和性别的人因此的趾高气昂。
-“I will greet each day with laughter.”
-“I am the possessor of a grateful spirit.” 我曾经不止一次地想感激的心和精神胜利法之间的本质区别。我觉得感激的心阻止我们在不该贪婪的时候的变得贪婪(比如我一定要用什么牌子的法国香水; 一定买多少cc以上的车子; 一定要住多少平米以上的房子等等), 而精神胜利法是阻止我们在应该进取的时候不去进取(比如我们的足球至少比泰国越南厉害;吃喝嫖赌的男人多了,我只是不做家务而已等等)
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We feel that Beethoven himmself, gloomy and awe-inspiring, is playing the "Es muss sein!" to our own great love.